The Ralph Family
We start in 1881 [2] with Frederick Ralf living in Marylebone, London but from Friston (near Aldeburgh) in Suffolk. He is aged 45 and working as an usher in the servants hall; we do not know where. With him are his wife Sarah, born in London, and their daughter Honoria Beatrice May just one year old also born in London.
Going forward 10 years to the 1891 census [3] we see that their family included children other than just Honoria, 11, as at home now there are also:
Alice Rhoda aged 24 and working as mother's help. She was born in Friston
Edith Sarah aged 22, born in Mayfair, London and helping mother
Frederick William aged 18, born in Dersingham and working as a photographer
Walter Edwin aged 16 born in Mayfair who apparently was "domesticated all works"!
Mabel Victoria at school aged 14 and born in Dersingham
Also living there was one Henry Knox, clerk and photographer, presumably working for Frederick who by now was both Servant User and Photographer as both employed and employer. Presumably this was at Sandringham making it quite possible that when he was in London in 1881 he was working for the Royal family and had to be wherever they were.
So where were the children who were not at home in 1881? I found them with Frederick's father John, a widower, born in Friston, an agricultural labourer and living in Dersingham near Sandpit Cottages; possibly Heath Road [4].
I tried to work out when Frederick and his father, John, first came to Dersingham. Looking back to the 1871 census I discovered Frederick living in London, a domestic servant, with three daughters - Louisa Matilda born 1865, Alice Rhoda (as in 1881) and Amelia Ellen 11 months old and I later found died later that year; none were born in Norfolk. [5] Frederick's parents, John and Matilda, were still in Friston [6], Matilda also died later that year. So it would seem that Ralph moved with the family so far to Norfolk and Dersingham in time for Frederick William to be born the following year with John moving there at least by 1881 (he died here 5 years later).
So, moving on to 1901 [7] we find that as well as Frederick (Usher in the Servants' Hall in Sandringham) and Matilda living in Victoria Cottage, Heath Road, Dersingham there were:
Frederick William Ralph 28 Artist/Photographer, born in Dersingham, Norfolk
Walter Edwin Ralph 26 Photographer, born in Mayfair, London
Honoria Beatrice May Ralph 21 Retoucher {photograph}, born in Maylebone, London
So, the family of photographers grows and all in the business were then living in Heath Road.
There is one more census to look at; that is 1911 [8] where we find only Honoria living the parents. Frederick hogs the limelight by using several lines to record his occupation, "Usher - Servants Hall Royal Household Long Service Pension and Photographer" on his own account with Honoria (aged 31 and single) identified merely as his assistant.
Frederick William was married with four young children,still living in Dersingham and a photographer working on his own account. His brother Walter Edwin was also married and living in Dersingham, working as a photographer but as a worker perhaps for his father or brother.
So what of the five surviving sisters:
Louisa Matilda married Edward Buckland in 1893 in Brentford where they lived until 1923 when, in their early 50s they set-sail for Australia leaving behind four adult children. There is a clear record that Louisa died here in 1943 but it contains a very odd situation; her parents are shown as William Ralph and Louisa nee Scarlett instead of Frederick Ralph and Sarah Scarlett. So far I have only managed to access a transcription but will see if I can obtain the image of her death record to validate it. So far the evidence I have that this is the right Louisa Matilda Ralph is that Frederick did not have a brother William (thinking they may have both married Scarlett sisters and given daughters the same name), there is no other marriage that stands the tests and children of Louisa and Edward had names including Edward, Alice and Frederick which are in the Ralph family here. Everything was right until reading the parents names on Matilda's transcribed death record which leaves a nagging question mark.
Alice Rhoda never married and died in 1919 in Billericay.
Edith Sarah was in Docking Workhouse in 1901 and the Gayton Workhouse in 1911. Then, in the 1939 Register, she is shown as being in a hospital in King's Lynn. Her sister Honoria is also there; both identified as domestic servants. She probably died a pauper in 1954 in the Downham Registration District
Mabel Victoria's records are not at all obvious after 1891 with a vaguely possible marriage in Islington in 1901 but nothing positive to be gained from further research for this article.
Honoria Beatrice May has been covered up until 1911 and then, as a patient, in the same King's Lynn hospital as her sister in 1939. Nothing else has come to light other than that she died in 1944 in the King's Lynn registration district.